10th
JAN

Ahhhh, so thats how they call it. Quarterlife Crisis

Posted by jepoyzter under Random Post

I have the habit of reading my friends status messages every time I go online. And last night I saw Candy’s status message and read her blog. Ahhhh, yun pala tawag dun. Its Quarterlife crisis.

This is from Wikipedia and thanks for Candy for the link:

Definition: The quarterlife crisis (QLC) is a term applied to the period of life immediately following the major changes of adolescence, usually ranging from the ages of 21 – 29. The term is named by analogy with mid-life crisis. It is now recognised by many therapists and professionals in the mental health field.

Characteristics of quarter-life crisis may include:

  • feeling “not good enough” because one can’t find a job that is at one’s academic/intellectual level
  • frustration with relationships, the working world, and finding a suitable job or career
  • confusion of identity
  • insecurity regarding the near future
  • insecurity regarding present accomplishments
  • re-evaluation of close interpersonal relationships
  • disappointment with one’s job
  • nostalgia for university, college, high school or elementary school life
  • tendency to hold stronger opinions
  • boredom with social interactions
  • financially-rooted stress
  • loneliness
  • desire to have children
  • a sense that everyone is, somehow, doing better than you

Bolded are characteristics that I have. See… 12 out of 14. Should I see a phyciatrist?

For more information, read more about Quarterlife Crisis on Wikipedia.

Reader's Comments

  1. Candy |

    It sucks, doesn’t it? Haay. No wonder I’ve so depressed/confused lately. =\ But anyway… I think we really have to stop thinking that it’s a quarterlife crisis and just commit it to the Lord… :)

  2. Candy |

    in ur confusion, don’t see a shrink.. seek the Lord hehe He has the answers… advice ako ng advice pero di ko naman ginagawa haha

  3. aileen |

    for a time 13 out of 14 ako a! kasi nga pala 22- 29 years old haha lapit ng 29! nabawasan na ng mga 3 cguro now so 10 na lang out of 14. Haha…it’s normal, that too shall pass… hehe :)

  4. bromike |

    desire to have children?! are you crazy?! once you have children like me, then you know what is the real meaning of “your enter-life crisis”, hahaha….

    another thing, you know you’re doing better than me, you don’t need to sense it, hahaha… sa tech gadgets at WLH CDs pa lang, talong-talo na ako…. KLM!!!! hahaha

  5. jepoyzter |

    aileem: oo nga eh di-tsi, sana as soon as possible.

    bro. mike: minsan ko lang naman iniisip to have kids. Cyempre iba kasi pag may nakikitang lang bata sa bahay. Pero I know and I am aware the sacrifices you have to take having children.

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